Ryan Leaf

Dennis Rodman

Allen Iverson

Ben Roethlisberger

John Daly

Pete Rose

Bret Favre

You have got to be kidding me! It will never end. Yet another professional athlete shows a lack of character.

Can our sports heroes really be this stupid or irresponsible? Is it lack of training, lack of character, poor discipline, or just a plain lack of personal responsibility? Is their poor behavior due to a sense of entitlement that comes with being a professional athlete? Is it the result of being spoiled, coddled and protected?

I have some questions. Where are the professional coaches, team mentors, and the paid advisors?  You would think the player’s family and friends, the sports agents, attorneys, and others have a vested interest in protecting a huge financial asset like a professional athlete? You would think they would want to keep the cash cow producing milk.

Perhaps, everyone is asleep at the wheel, afraid to confront the athlete for fear of losing a lucrative contract?

What about the family and friends, where are they?  These athletes all can’t have an entourage of paid fake friends.  You decide.

My last question, do you think any of these athletes’ have one friend stand up and say “ I’m not sure, but maybe texting a picture of yourself like that to a woman in the media is a bad idea.”

In any case professional athletes are failing.  The sports organizations they belong to are failing.  Their agents and advisors are failing.  By failing to provide pro-active leadership and personal effectiveness training to the athletes to pre-empt their sophomoric, undisciplined and oftentimes-criminal activity, all of them, are failing all of us.

Urban wants you

Last week, I was fortunate to have early east coast wake up. Stuck in a hotel room on the east coast, I woke up a little early, made a cup of coffee and turned on ESPN. The Mike and Mike Show was on. The show is sports talk radio program that is filmed for TV.

As I watched, Urban Meyer, the two-time Nation Championship winning, University of Florida, football coach walked out, sat down and discussed why he quit coaching and pay for play in NCAA football.

If you don’t remember, Coach Meyer just retired from the Univ. of Florida last year because of burnout.

A few weeks ago we wrote about how some of the NFL coaches sons have lost their way.  Listen carefully to the interview.  In the first three minutes, he talks a about how hard he worked, what he and his family sacrificed and how it effected his children.

He then talks about college football and money, and the problems faced by the NCAA of the mixing them together.

Yes, I know there is burnout in all fields and professions.  I’m sure this problem is not limited to just coaching and sports.  I am just providing you with another story that exemplifies the need for balance on and off the field, classroom or home.

If you don’t know, he is now an analyst for ESPN and probably working just as hard.

I posted this a few places, one is on this email, on this page and another is on the original “Coaches” post as a comment.

Here is a link to the radio interview:
http://espn.go.com/espnradio/player?rd=1#/podcenter/?id=6180510&callsign=ESPNRADIO&autoplay=1

Here is a link to the Mike and Mike Show on ESPN:
http://espn.go.com/new-york/radio/show?showId=mikeandmike

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Tonight, the 2011 NCAA Men’s Basketball tournament ends in Houston, TX.   Either the U Conn. Huskies or the Butler Bulldogs will be crowned the champions after the game.  I hope at least somebody is still alive in the office pool, but I guessing most of you are not.

As the season closes, I thought I would share a video about how the head coach of the Marquette Golden Eagles runs his program.  Coach Buzz Williams took his team to the sweet sixteen and has just been granted a contract extension.  In a time of scandals and suspensions Coach Buzz takes it upon himself to build not only a great basketball team but to build great men of character.

In this video Coach Williams brings in the players in for the first meeting of the season.  In the meeting he introduces himself to the new and returning players, sets the tone for the up-coming season with high expectations, and shares one of “Buzz’s life lessons.”  Coach Williams teaches about how character is the glue that holds both the team and the individual together when the going gets tough both on and off the basketball court.

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Summer is officially here. It’s graduation time once again.  My niece just graduated last week and is on her way to college. We could not be prouder.

Next year she will be a freshman and before you know it, she will be off into the world.  This blog is for her.  Well, actually it is for everyone. Some of us need this advice more than others.

I woke up early Sunday morning, and as always watched the CBS Sunday Morning news show.  For some reason, they always have feel good news. I am not a news junky, so I may be behind on this one. Please, let me know if this is their program format. So, today was no different.

This is Ben Steins’ June 13, 2010, commentary to the graduating classes.  I thought everyone would benefit from Ben and his shrink’s advice.  Thanks, Ben. Congratulations, Carla.

Watch it now, here.

Watch CBS News Videos Online

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2010/06/13/sunday/main6577542.shtml

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Gen. David Petraeus

Whether you like it or not, General Petraeus was the successful architect and implementer of “The Surge” strategy in Iraq.  With more than 30 years of service in the United States Army, David Petraeus knows his share about leadership.

The 57-year-old army officer and West Point graduate is now in charge of US central Command and some are saying he might make a bid for the Presidency.  US central Command is located in Tampa, Fl. and is responsible for both Iraq and Afghanistan.

Brian O’Keefe of Fortune Magazine interviewed Gen. David Petraeus for the March 2010 Leadership Issue.  He asked him four simple questions. The entire article, including questions and answers is less than 500 words.

I have further boiled it down to its most basic parts.

I have not only omitted Mr. Brian O’Keefe’s questions but have abridged the general’s responses. I have used as few words as possible to emphasize the meaning. Please click here for a link to the entire article.

Key to leadership success:

Big Ideas, be a North Star to guide people.

Your inner core qualities:

Be 100% brutally honest and then learn and adapt.

Traits to make a great leader:

Judgment

Physical fitness

Mental toughness

Integrity

Professional competence

Any role models:

Ulysses S Grant

http://money.cnn.com/2010/03/04/news/companies/petraeus_leadership.fortune/index.htm

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Last week, I attended the ASTD Utah luncheon and professional development seminar at the Marriot Salt Lake. The guest speaker was Rob and Dan Chipman from BizVision and the topic was how to train Millennial.

Rob and Dan are a father and son team that work very well together.   Rob Chipman is the founder and CEO of BizVision, a provider of video-powered online training, professional education and communications for businesses and other organizations.

Dan is both a researcher at the firm and a very knowledgeable “Millennial” himself. Both offered powerful insights at what make the next generation tick.  They presented research that shows how to best train, what values they embrace, and characteristics that make up the core of the group.

If you are not familiar, a Millennial is the next generation. To be more specific, they are the generation after “Gen X.” They are the age group that is just starting to graduate college and join the work force.

Why is this important to you?  The Millennials comprise the largest generational group in the US workforce.  At present, according to Rob Chipman and the BizVision team “there are approximately 27 million Millennials working and that number is due to grow to a maximum of approximately 80 million.”

I took note of the five most important points when leading, training or supervising a Millennial. Take these into consideration and make them a part of your overall leadership persona, especially when dealing with the next generation.

The medium is the message: How many PowerPoint presentations have you sat through? Exactly. Try to keep things dynamic.  Be engaging and try to modify the means of communication for training, policies or memorandums. Have an HR policy change: Try making a YouTube video describing the change and send out a link via face book, twitter or email.

Keep it short: Think You-tube and Google. Try not to make any training or lessons longer than 10 minutes.  Get to the point and get it over with.  For example: No one wants to read an entire photography manual to take a few photos with their new camera, they want to find the information important to them to go take the photos.

Solicit input: Always ask to see if there is a different way of doing something and receive constructive criticism. Millenniums might have a better, faster or cheaper way of doing a task.  Give them the reigns.  Let them make up their own training videos or presentations, so that the message will suit the intended audience the best.

Message, outcomes or tasks must make sense: Millenniums must see worth in a task.  Busy work is definitely a “no-no” when working with the next generation.  Also, messages must be congruent and make sense from top to bottom. For example: Just think about BP and their environmental stance or the “Big Three” automakers flying their private jets to Washington with their hats in their hands.

Do not let technology become the master: Remember the old adage garbage-in and garbage-out. Do not let email, Facebook and other time-savers turn into time-wasters. If you have trouble with technology running your life, set a scheduled time to check e-mail once or twice a day or reply only to the important items.  Make tech work for you.

Overall, the ASTD seminar and luncheon was well worth the entry fee.  While there, I learned the ASTD Utah chapter was nationally recognized as one of the premier chapters in the country.  I could see why. The meeting went on without a hitch, the presentation was excellent and the information presented was current and poignant.

If you would like to attend the next meeting, all are welcomed. They meet the third Thursday once a month, plus have special events and trainings throughout the year.

For more info on either organization, please contact:

BizVision Headquarters
7050 Union Park Center, 6th Floor
Salt Lake City, UT 84047
Toll Free: (800) 811-0230
Phone: (801) 562-2252
Fax: (801) 562-1773

http://www.bizvision.com/

ASTD Utah Chapter

PO Box 271491

Salt lake City, Utah 84127-1491

Phone: 801-322-5709

http://chapters.astd.org/SiteDirectory/Utah/Pages/default.aspx

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One of the best-kept secrets in the Great Salt Lake valley is the great lake itself.  Due to its relative seclusion, lack of fishermen and their associated powerboats, the lake is one of the best spots in all of Utah to sail.

I was invited by Capt. JR Reynolds to come enjoy the day, go for a sail on his new boat and witness how he teaches leadership and teamwork with his sailboat the “Nauti Girl.”

I am always interested in how people teach leadership.  It is a great learning experience to see how people teach with different types of platforms. Plus, it was an awesome day for sailing, mild temperatures, mostly sunny skies and light winds.

The marina is located about 15 miles west of downtown Salt Lake City. It is a short drive from the airport, downtown or Park City. Ten minutes is all it takes from the airport, or give yourself about 40 minutes if you are coming from the Park City area.

It is an easy, scenic drive. Simply take I-80 west to the Saltaire exit, go north and follow the signs to the marina.

There, you will find Capt. JR Reynolds, the “Nauti Girl,” and the Great Salt Lake Experience. Not to mention some of the best sailing in the valley.

Captain JR has over 30 years experience. He has been sailing on the Great Salt Lake since moving to Utah in 1990.  He is licensed with the State of Utah, and has certifications from several organizations including the Power Squadron.

His sailboat, the “Nauti Girl”, a Catalina 270, is the platform the GSLE uses for teambuilding, leadership, as well as the usual cruising, sail lessons, dinner and sunset tours.

Capt. Reynolds demonstrated how he teaches leadership and teambuilding while we were on the lake that day. Teamwork is fairly obvious to show aboard a sailboat as JR explained, “You can either work as a team and sail, or you’re dead in the water.”

Teams learn basic sailing skills while rotating through all the different shipboard roles in which they will have to give and take orders and rely on each other during different maneuvers and exercises.

JR showed me the four basic crew responsibilities on board: head sail management, main sail management, helmsman and lookout.  When you bring your clients or students, each of them will have the opportunity to experience all four positions and many opportunities to work both as a team and as the leader.

Captain Reynolds is available to take you and your party out on the Great Salt Lake for a 4-hour cruise, day-trips, sunset cruises and lessons.

Go to their website, you can find more information there. Here is the contact information:

Capt JR Reynolds

1.801.898.0270

1.866.SAILOR1

jr@ GreatSaltLakeExperience.org

http://greatsaltlakeexperience.org/home

I’ll cut strait to the chase the trip was all worth it. I can highly recommend the entire experience.  The sailing lesson, the experience and the leadership and teamwork lessons were all first rate.

If you are a coach, mentor, and teacher or just want to test or hone your leadership skills don’t hesitate to call JR and schedule a cruise.  Thanks JR for the trip; I hope to see you out soon.

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Old man and his donkey in Greece

I received one of those spam, junk, chain letter emails from a friend the other day. The sad thing, I opened it and read it. Even sadder, it got me thinking.

The saddest part of all, it actually hit home.

Well, what does the story have to do with leadership?

Everything and nothing. But, I made myself a promise to do more of both. I hope you do the same.

So, here is what I am going to do. At the end of the letter, I added a call to action. I am giving you two choices.

Read. Enjoy. Choose

An old man, a boy and a donkey were going to town.  The boy rode on the donkey and the old man walked.

As they went along they passed some people who remarked it was a shame the old man was walking and the boy was riding.

The man and boy thought maybe the critics were right, so they changed positions.

Then, later, they passed some people who remarked, “What a shame, he makes that little boy walk.” So they then decided they’d both walk!

Soon they passed some more people who thought they were stupid to walk when they had a decent donkey to ride.  So, they both rode the donkey.

Now they passed some people who shamed them by saying how awful to put such a load on a poor donkey. The boy and man figured they were probably right, so they decide to carry the donkey.

As they crossed the bridge, they lost their grip on the animal and he fell into the river and drowned.

The moral of the story?

If you try to please everyone, you might as well…

Kiss your ass goodbye!

Have A Nice Day And
Be Careful With Your Donkey

So, here they are:

Choice 1: If you like the blog and the information contained in the website, please forward the e-mail you received to at lease two people. Not a hard task by any means.

Choice 2: If you do not like or enjoy the information you receive, go back to the original email and get off the email list. That’s right, an even simpler task, unsubscribe. You can’t please ‘em all, now can you?

Which one are you going to choose?

*Oh yeah, If you are the guy who wrote this pearl of wisdom or own the copy write, please don’t have your lawyer sue me. Just drop me a note or leave a comment. Don’t worry I’ll give you proper credit. Geese, it’s just spam anyway. And, by the way, thanks to the guy who sent it to me.

Love, Rick

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